Meet the Staff

Tom Willoughby joined the First Baptist Church staff in August of 1985 to serve as Minister of Music. A native of Tyler, Texas, Tom completed his college and seminary studies at Oklahoma Baptist University and Southwestern Baptist Theological Seminary, respectively. Tom is married to Nancy, who in addition to being a wife and mother of two grown children, is a choral director currently pursing a doctorate in music. Tom and Nancy are the parents of Jennifer (Mrs. Matt) Crowder, a junior high choral director in Choctaw, and Matt Willoughby, a middle school English teacher in Garland, Texas.

Tom’s ministry in the local church spans 32 years served in churches in Texas, Tennessee and Oklahoma. Tom is active in many ministry-related groups, including the Singing Churchmen of Oklahoma, which he serves as accompanist.

Kay K. Means is Minister to Students at First Baptist Church, Lawton, Ok. Her family moved to the Lawton/Fort Sill area in 1975 when her father served as an Army Chaplain. Since that time, Kay has made this home and God has blessed in many ways. She graduated from Eisenhower High School in 1978 and continued her education at Cameron University receiving a Bachelor of Science degree in Accounting. After working in the secular business world, God opened the doors for Kay to join the support staff of FBC in 1987 as Financial Controller. She held that position for 13 year until such time when her passion and love for students lead her to the position she currently holds at FBC as Minister to Students. Kay has worked with students at FBC for 25 years in a variety of roles, but now gets the total joy of working and leading them on a full time basis. She and her husband Philip live in east Lawton along with their two sons, Michael 22, who is a senior at Kansas State University and Kenton, 16, who is a Freshman at MacArthur High School. 

Kay’s “heaven on earth” is watching God teach, use, and grow students. Whether that is in experiencing God’s presence in worship, learning in study of His Word, serving on missions to others, having a blast at summer camps and just living everyday life together “In His Name”.

Marsha Naugle joined the staff of First Baptist in September 2004 as Minister to Preschool and Children.  A native Oklahoman, she is returning home after serving churches in Texas and Missouri.  Marsha is a graduate of Oklahoma Baptist University (BS, 1985) and Southwestern Baptist Theological Seminary (MARE, 1997). 

Marsha's passion is to watch God work in the lives of boys and girls and help guide them as they begin their spiritual journeys and discover the awesome love of God.  She has a deep love for children and their families and works to provide opportunities for those relationships to be continually strengthened and renewed.